Debra brings an “”unapproved snack”” to Ally’s T-ball game and Ray doesn’t stand up for her â€“ prominently displaying his fear of being disliked. Debra had no idea that pretzels were not on the “”approved snack list”” in the orientation packet for Ally’s team. And, as a mom juggling three children under the age of 7, she doesn’t have time to cater â€“ and really doesn’t care. But when Raymond won’t take her side against the uptight team parents, she loses her cool and points out that he’s just afraid of making enemies. But enemies he makes â€“ at the very next game.